The late 90’s heralded the speed
dating concept generating a new way to find ‘the one.’ For some time now, singles have seemed to favour
on-line hookups with a preference for dating apps such as Tinder, but a lot of
people like to meet a potential partner in person, aka the old-fashioned way,
and events such as these are a perfect way of meeting more than 20 dates in one
night, obviously if they fit the bill, looks and personality wise. The biggest
asset for speed dating is that people are meeting other people face to face. Unlike on-line dating apps, people can’t edit themselves, they
can’t put a five year younger version of themself out there. With speed dating,
singles can get a taster of what potential dates are like and whether there’s that
sparkle, that chemistry between each other, face to face and if the right questions are
asked, they’ll know if they are compatible.
Fastlove Speed Dating, established
since 2003, is the biggest speed dating and singles event organiser in the
North, with events in high quality venues such as The Hilton Hotel, Liverpool,
events take place throughout the North West and Yorkshire.
They aim to attract people of all
ages with events for specific age ranges; this event was primarily for singles
aged between 50 and 65 years of age but had developed into a mixed age range
from 35 upwards.
For the cost of a £25 event ticket,
attendees have the opportunity to meet up to twenty five dates of similar age for
approximately four-minutes during a night of fun and possible flirting which
can become very noisy and busy.
Upon arrival, a registration
process is completed, and an explanation is provided of how the event works;
attendees are given a name badge, a pen and a 'scorecard' to record their
thoughts about each date and tick either a 'Yes' to those people that they’re interested
in meeting again, or a ‘No’ if they are not impressed. Ladies are seated on
numbered tables whilst the men visit each table numerically to meet potential
dates. Host, Ajaz is on hand with his whistle to let the men know when to move
on to their next table and to help guide people through the process.
After the event, attendees
receive a results email within 48 hours, informing them who they've matched
with (i.e. mutual 'Yes' ticks). They are also informed of those who have given
them a ‘Yes’ tick who they’ve declined.
There is a break halfway through,
which is needed after non-stop talking. It also gives attendees a breather to
catch up with friends and ask how their meet-ups are going, before heading back
for the second round.
Was it nerve-wracking, was I
nervous? Definitely not, the whole process was exactly as I imagined it would
be and I felt at ease and comfortable meeting a room full of strangers at a venue
I’d never visited before; any nerves I felt beforehand were quickly dispelled. Most
people were on their own, some with a friend such as myself, and everyone
chatted with each other comfortably. The hosts were friendly and helpful, and
the process was outlined clearly with clarification as needed. The event lasted
approximately three hours including the break, and the time flew by quickly.
This is a fun way of meeting
potential dates, and the atmosphere is vibrant with people who have high
expectations and are looking to be successful in their attempts to meet a new partner.
The events are perfect for a girls
nights out with lots of conversation, laughter, the buzz of meeting new people during one evening and a
bar on hand for drinks.
Founder, Ajaz Iqbal is passionate
about helping singles find genuine connections whether they are a professional
looking for love or someone looking to get back out after a breakup. He commends
speed dating as being ideal for all, whether shy and introverted or outgoing
and confident, or simply a single person looking for a fun night out.
This event was exceptionally busy,
there was lots of chatter and laughter, everyone looked to be enjoying
themselves and many stayed on afterwards at the bar for further drinks and
chat.
Fast Love host around 15-20 events
each month as well as providing singles parties, gay and lesbian events, singles
bootcamps and Elite events at upmarket venues in Liverpool, Manchester, Leeds,
Chester and Wilmslow; more details about events can be found at https://www.fastlovespeeddating.co.uk/speed-dating-events.
Ajaz Iqbal contact details:
- Tel 07931 300555, email info@fastlovespeeddating.co.uk.
Reviewer: Anne Horne
On: 20th February 2026












